Phases of love life.

Shit.. it has been more than 10 days and i havnt scribbled anything here.. so here i go breaking the silence, adding some fresh blood to this blog. so here i go.. for long i have been thinking about the so called stages of love life.. how a relationship starts.. what feeling we have and then time passes we mature feelings ummm i wouldnt say changes.. but they also sort of get matured. or is that we are getting used to it ?? may be may be not. its still a enigma.. neways.. lets try to put out some overview to it.. its about a blind date...

Stage 1 : - when two strangers meet

Hey the best stage huh ;) aheem aheem... god knows there are millions of cheeky feelings inside one..about The First meeting. How will s/He react after meeting me.. will i be able to impress her/him bla bla bla... starting from what to wear.. which perfume to use.. how to act.. standingin front of mirror and mimicking to behave in the best and decent manner.. Gosh.. the moment of restless takes over.. taking out all the best of the best dresses and changing them one by one just to see which one will look good. Probably the only day for a human like me to plan everything.. i know i knw.. you dont have to look at me like that.. i realy was up on time and was ready on time and ya ya .. to give u a surprise i was even on time where i was suppose to meet.. ok thats enuuf about me in the blog. but even in general i have seen people planning themself. Then you have those butterflies flying in ur stomach which are not that active but they are there... u don feel like eating.. u feel restless.. and millions of those ineffable feelings Gosh!!! aren't they great... .so that was about the time you get ready to meet the stranger.

Now when you are just 15 min away from the meeting. hey can i say the heart reaches its limit for his blood pumping business.. ? aheem aheem... it is.. it actully is. and then you fogets everything you practiced in the morning.. and every min looking at how you are looking.. are you looking ok.. checking u r not stinking.. even a minute looks like an hour... Gosh .. tremendous..

and now the moment we have been waiting for.. The first Glimpse of the person.. Shittttt.. what an excited moment that is... naa..labeling it with the word excitement makes it look small.. its something way beyond excitement. a feeling untold, indescribable. Then they first had a hand shake.. and the first words comes out with feeling of excitement mixed with frightened, and then the two sit for a coffee.. i choose coffee for this occasion cause mostly the first date happen over a cup of coffee. sitting in a corner.. just the two of you.. shy'ing away from each other... trying to look into each others face.. and then smiling. try to act at ur best. trying to strike a conversation ... kewl man .. its a nice feeling... a feeling untold and the feeling that will never come again for the whole of ur life towards that person. The feeling that i personally wanted to capture so that i can cherish the moment for whole of my life.

And then the moment to say Bye to each other for the first time ever. which you wish would never come.. the time fly by and you feel sulk just by thinking that you gonna part away till next time you meet. ok i knw it sound sad but then aint the feelin sweet ??

OK that was for the stage one.. i can go on and on and on without stoping but i have to cover other phases too.. lol. so i;ll but a full stop to this phase here.. lemme move onto the next phase.

A song for this phase ;) Lifehouse - You and Me - I don't know why I can't keep my eyes off of you

Phase -2 :- You fall for each other

The Greatest moment in one;s life. Two hearts beating for each other. always thinking about each other. Getting restless just to talk to each other.

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GOSH i am tanned man.. i just looked at my forehand and its so badly tanned.. ok ok .. am getting back to the topic now.. i love getting off topic in between.
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Now that the two are restless and drowned deep into the thoughts of each other, they will miss N number of meals.. and god knows how many stupid things they would do and then there mom will scold them for beeing so irresponsible. anyways now there is not the same feeling which one had at the time they were meeting for the first time. but the feelings ummmm lemme say get matured.. you are restless but not the same way.. this time you just wanted to be with him/her. and when are with your perfect partner, his/her company tends to overshadow every other possible other things. There are less talks that takes place and more of looking onto each other;s eyes. Waiting for weekends to arrive so that the two can meet and spend some time together.The time passes by.. days into weeks.. weeks into months.. months into years..

You want to talk to each other all the time. first you talk to each other through chat... though phones all day.. all night.. and then one fine day the phone bills arrives and you just had a haeart attack after reading it. lol.. but like someone says everything is fair, in love and war. you start using your dad's phone so that he pays all the bill and not you :P save money so that you can spend with her on the weekends. you try to figure out various ways of beeing on constant touch with each other in a

A song for this phase ;) Gareth Gates - Listen To My Heart - Listen to my heart beat for you...